A Loveless Marriage
Making Your Marriage Work When You Don't Love Your Spouse
Being married is never easy. When you feel the love is gone, make the effort to stay married anyway. Your family deserves it.
Although there are many reasons people get married in the first place, there are relatively few reasons why people stay married.
Unbelievably some couples actually enjoy their marriage and stay together “till death do they part” because they cannot imagine living without their chosen mate. Some couples stay together for the sake of their children and others stay together for fear of the unknown. No matter the reasoning behind couples choosing to make their marriage work even when they don’t feel love for each other, short of the marriage being an abusive situation, it is a choice that should be applauded and supported by friends and family members. If the choice has been made to continue the marriage in a loveless scenario there are things that can be done to make the union enjoyable for both parties involved.
Put your spouse first. It can be difficult, but
learning to put your feelings aside and treating your spouse as if they
are a top priority will work wonders in the happiness of the home. Some
people may ask: “Why do I have to always be the one to put forth the
effort?” If this is a question you are asking, ask yourself another one:
Do you want your marriage to work or not?
Recall the things you love most about your spouse. There are traits that your spouse possesses that you found charming in the past. Ironically enough they may even be the things that annoy you most now. Take some time to cherish those traits. Learn to love your spouse again and commit to stay together.
To stay together and make a marriage work even if you think you no longer love your spouse can be difficult, but with a positive attitude, a “can do” spirit and a willing heart it is possible to have the happy, loving family of your dreams.
Recall the things you love most about your spouse. There are traits that your spouse possesses that you found charming in the past. Ironically enough they may even be the things that annoy you most now. Take some time to cherish those traits. Learn to love your spouse again and commit to stay together.
To stay together and make a marriage work even if you think you no longer love your spouse can be difficult, but with a positive attitude, a “can do” spirit and a willing heart it is possible to have the happy, loving family of your dreams.
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